Sometimes I feel, I am so occupied with Ram. When Ram will grow up How will I feel. Every kid has to leave his parent at some point. I feel like I will get mad, Ram was in Stamford for 5 days and was cautious not to be at home. Spent most of the time in office and outside, just used to come to sleep. Did very little cooking. when I used to come home it was so empty at home, was not feeling to do anything.
But when I look at my Aie, she is also full time occupied. In the beginning when I came here I used to feel very bad about my parents since they were alone there. But now I feel they are enjoying there life now, especially my Aie. what not she is doing. Joined few clubs where some or the other activities going on in which she is participating. Visiting places. Now she has joined her long left ambition, singing class. Day before yesterday she told me, and I was amazed.
I think when your kids are not with you instead of missing them or all time in sad mood, one should live the lost life. I have learnt it from Aie. Now she is planning to be a tour manager of a 'Tour Company', she likes to travel.
Hats off to Mama, I love you and proud of you Mama!!
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You have expressed yourself very beautifully, and also finding solutions to the situation. Its true that , as parents grow children acquires major parts of parents life, on the contrary when children grows, they goes distant from parents creating their own life . In short at this moment you kids are major part of our life and living, but your life and leaving contains a lot of things. As you takes care of your parents , your son will definitely do the same.
ReplyDeleteI know exactly how you feel.We want them to grow-up and at the same time don't like it when they grow-up. Mothers! :-).
ReplyDeleteHope to make my life meaningful as your mom, when Iniya makes her own. Great post.
Priya